DEPENDENCY

 So what's Dependency? Okay,Dependency is a situation in which you need something or someone and are unable to continue normally without them.

  Humans now love to be independent, we love to be our own "bosses". We love to be in charge of everything at every point in time.

  Life is complex. The issues of life is definitely not something you can,or rather should even think of handling alone,that's talking about your jobs,your education,your marriages,your spiritual lives, your finances and the rest.

   Most people feel dependency makes them weak. Dependency is rather a form of strength,you're strong when you admit to yourself that you can't do certain things and you look up to someone else to help you. The  greatest form of insecurity is when you know you can't do a certain thing and you live in a delusion instead of looking up to someone for help.

   Looking at the Christian life,most Christians delude themselves thinking they can handle everything life throws at them on their own. Most people like taking the hard way in many life issues. Haven't you noticed it? We talk about the easy way out,when subconsciously we look for the hardest route to take,we do this all because we don't want to ask for help.

    I remember when I entered school newly,I wasn't used to the place, I didn't know how to find my way around. I was walking,then,I got lost, I couldn't get back to my hostel, I didn't know where I was,because I was not ready to ask for help, somewhere that I originally ought to spend like 3O minutes while returning ,I think I spent like 2hours just going in circles,all this happens because I didn't want to ask for help,mate I felt they'll be disturbed or maybe they'll just ignore me. Most of us feel this way with God,we feel depending on Him will make Him feel disturbed or maybe we are just to proud?

   God provides help when we need it and in the way we need it most. Phill 4:19 Paraphrasing says God will meet all our need,so we can rely on God for all our needs to be met. Isa 41:13 paraphrasing says God will hold our right hand,saying unto us Fear not,I will help thee. God loves helping us,all we have to do is ask. God asks if there is anything to hard for Him to do. Its insulting when we underestimate God,thinking our Challenges are to big for us to depend on Him. He who created the world in 6 days and then rested on the 7th day,is He the same person that can't balance your finances,Health,marriage and so much more? Honour God and Trust Him,drop all your worries at His feet,drop all your burdens to Him.

   Depend on God,He's our strong Foundation. The rock on which we stand.

#MelzyWrites#

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  1. Deborah Imoukhuede17 July 2023 at 08:14

    Thank you so much for this message. God bless you.

    I choose to depend on God always.

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  2. @giftgreatwriters17 July 2023 at 17:19

    I love this. God bless you

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